INTIMACY THAT FEELS SAFE, ALIVE
+ EXPANSIVE
THE SOMATIC RELATIONSHIP COACH
My work guides conscious couples to meet each other with presence,
to soften where tension once held,
move beyond protection
and open into a way of relating that feels regulated, connected, tender + real
Sessions are grounded in Shadow Somatics™
my signature modality developed over a decade of immersive study synthesising somatic therapy, nervous-system regulation, dark eros (by John Hawken), shadow work, trauma-informed relational healing + tantric-inspired principles
Whether you’re navigating challenges,
or reaching for the deeper potential you can feel between you, this path meets you where you are
+ expands what’s possible
DANNI LOVEFOX
THE SOMATIC RELATIONSHIP COACH
FOR COUPLES ON THE THRESHOLD OF SOMETHING DEEPER
Feeling the pull toward honest, emotionally attuned connection
Noticing moments of shutdown where softness wants to return
Craving intimacy that feels safe, enlivened + embodied
Sensing a bigger potential in your connection
Wanting to integrate shadow, truth + tenderness
Curious about tantra in a grounded, nervous-system-safe way
Desiring intimacy that deepens + matures with time
If you can feel the ‘more’ inside your connection, SNATCH helps you reach it
Imagine what it would be like…
…to sit across from the person you love and feel your whole body soften
Not because the tension is gone,
but because you finally trust yourselves to meet it together
Imagine feeling their presence reach you
in a way it never has before
Eyes soft, breath slow,
speaking from a regulated place instead of a reactive one
Imagine moments that once spiralled into shutdown becoming places of honesty, attunement + warmth — where you feel closer after conflict, not further away
A REAL STORY FROM THIS WORK
One couple I worked with arrived shut down in their intimacy, caught in old protection patterns despite loving each other deeply
Through Shadow Somatics™ they learned to slow their bodies, regulate together before speaking truths they had never voiced
In order for authentic desire to return in a way that felt safe, alive + real meant starting again at the beginning,
rebuilding their connection from the ground up
I guided them through tantric-inspired principles that helped them grow a relationship
capable of weathering the storms of long-term love,
maintaining truthful, connection through it all
THE TRANSFORMATION POSSIBLE
What began as fear + resentment wrapped in hope
slowly softened into truth, tenderness + a kind of honesty that showed them exactly where their hearts needed to realign
When your nervous systems settle + trust each other again, intimacy can open into a space where truth can land, be felt + expand
HOW WOULD IT BE IF...
Your relationship becomes a living temple
You start mornings with connection - that kiss, a smile, touch you actually feel
Each opens up freely about their needs, without it spiralling into conflict
Devotion deepens, while honouring the sacred sovereignty of both
You trust each other enough to be vulnerable, meeting tender parts with awareness + care
Routine moments turn into rituals of closeness - laughter at dinner, playful touch, warm caresses before sleep
THE SHADOW SOMATICS™ PROCESS
A signature modality developed by Danni Lovefox
integrating somatic regulation, shadow integration + tantric-inspired foundations for sustainable intimacy
BEGINS WITH THE BODY
Intimacy begins within
Through slowing down, feeling your internal cues + meeting your nervous system with care,
you reclaim presence — the ground for connection to deepen, and protection starts to soften
MEETS THE SHADOW
Triggers, tension + old patterns aren’t obstacles — they are invitations
Explore what surfaces during conflict, misattunement or withdrawal
so you can meet each other with compassion + truth
The shadow becomes a doorway into deeper intimacy
AWAKENS SENSATIONS + DESIRE
Through conscious touch, breath, attunement + embodied awareness,
the body becomes receptive again
Numbness shifts into sensation,
fear into flow
and physical intimacy becomes
safe, alive + connected
— never pressured or performative
EXPANDS INTO UNION
As the body softens and shadow is met,
you learn to stay connected without losing yourself —
meeting each other with clarity + truth
Union becomes a practiced state of two regulated, sovereign nervous systems — creating a relationship that is resilient, honest, sensual + emotionally authentic
SINGLE SESSIONS
for both individuals + couples
90-minute somatic coaching or 2.5–3hr couples intimacy sessions
Offering flexible support for those needing clarity or a specific breakthrough
Packages of sessions are ideal if you prefer to explore one theme at a time
Available exclusively online via Zoom
Most couples arrive here not because things are falling apart, but because they sense a quiet truth
— there is more available
They feel a tension beneath the surface
The unspoken needs,
the subtle habits of withdrawal or overwhelm,
or the desire to love each other more fully
without losing themselves
This work is for the couples who are ready to
slow down, breathe
and choose a new way of relating
A way where connection is not performed...
but felt through the entire being
READY TO BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY?
Choose the depth your relationship is ready for, or connect with me to explore the right path
